In the Media

… her mother before her was also a dieter. Going from one fad diet to another is what she has grown up with. She feels she knows a little bit about health, and most of this learning was done in the late 1980’s during the ‘low fat’ and ‘calorie counting’ era. All the diets over the years gave her a toolbox full of ways to drop weight, but never any that stuck. More recent changes in health advice and more specifically, around eating for health rather than weight loss has her overwhelmingly confused based upon her past experience.

Paula’s Challenges:

• She has been a dieter all her life, she has clothing in her wardrobe ranging from a size 12 to a size 18
• She will often skip meals to manage her weight, leading to hunger and binge eating, and later guilt
• She considers herself lazy in terms of food choices and ‘knows she can do better’ by restricting her food intake
• Paula is sporadic with exercise

Next Steps at Retreat:

Paula’s lifetime of restriction had her stuck in feeling that food had to be basic, bland and boring. We developed a meal plan that was a realistic approach which suits her and her family’s lifestyle and was based on finding healthy food they can all enjoy rather than feeding the family something one thing and herself another. Encourage Paula to stop trying to do it all, focus on one improvement at a time.

… She was a high achieving business woman, a CEO of a NZ Company, and she needed some time to rest and reset. In addition to her demanding job, she was a mother, with two children who needed to be taken to sports and needed support in their studies. She is constantly on the go and was well overdue for some time for herself and some rest. She wanted to get away for an extended break, somewhere which was private, serene, and where she would be taken care of. She wanted to go home feeling relaxed, rejuvenated, ready for the next few months ahead.

Vicky’s Challenges:

• She is constantly under pressure, being pulled in all directions
• She doesn’t prioritise rest and relaxation as part of her day to day
• Her sleep patterns are unpredictable, getting to bed late most nights
• She has been operating at this level for an extended period and her energy levels are starting to be affected

Next Steps at Retreat:

We needed to help Vicky to relax. This was never going to be easy. She needed to give herself permission to stop. This took a few days. To keep her stress levels from getting out of control when she got back to the office, she needed to keep on top of her emails during her time away. To ensure she got her required rest time, she limited her time in front of the computer to between the morning fitness session and lunch time. When we met for lunch, that would be it for the day. She took naps in the afternoons when she needed it. Sometimes she just lay in bed or by the pool and read her book all afternoon during ‘bliss time’.

… take back control of her health. Brenda had tried various ‘diets’ over the years, but couldnt make any of them stick. This led to her concluding that she didn’t have the ‘will power’ or ‘self control’ and would give up if she deviated from the diet at all. She concluded that ‘health was too hard’. More recently diagnosed by her doctor with Pre-Diabetes. He warned her that if she didn’t take steps to reduce her blood sugar levels and weight, she would be faced with daily insulin injections. Brenda came on a Two Week Transformation retreat to get a kick start to making some changes, in particular to get some practical steps she could take to reduce her blood sugar levels and her risk of Diabetes.

Brenda’s Challenges:

• A lack of planning and organisation around meals led to Brenda relying on high sugar or fast-burning convenience foods when she got hungry
• Brenda has lost the belief she can change her health, she’s lost motivation, is afraid of failure and doesn’t know what to do next as she has ‘tried and failed’ in the past
• She skips breakfast, often having her first meal at 11am from the office cafe
• Her largest meal of the day is dinner, just before she goes to bed
• She relies on sugar and coffee for energy

Next Steps at Retreat:

We needed to get Brenda to trust in her body again and show her that incremental improvements to her health didn’t have to be hard. She didn’t have to do it the same way as everyone else either, she needed to do it in a way which suited her lifestyle and didnt make her feel like she was constantly on a diet. Brenda needed to change her mindset about failure and remember that she doesn’t have to be perfect to be healthier than she was yesterday.

… her food diary, we see a number of areas which might be holding Debbie back. Debbie considered herself to be doing everything right. But she cannot lose or keep weight from creeping on. She is frustrated that she is taking the time and effort to look after herself however she is not seeing the results. She is becomming worn down and disheartened with the process and is at risk of giving up on her health journey. This dissapointment is leading to increased incidences of binging. She came on a Ten Day Intensive Retreat to take some time out open her mind and and to re-look at the approch she is taking.

Debbie’s Challenges:

• Her meals are based mainly on complex or low-GI carbohydrates without enough protein
• She is mis-informed that eating as much fruit and veggies as possible (with emphasis on the fruit) is serving her
• She starts her day with a large breakfast smoothie which is predominantly fruit-based, which leaves her hungry and riding the “blood sugar roller coaster’ for the rest of the day
• She is hungry for most of the day, rarely feels ‘satisfied’ after her meals
• Debbie’s mindset around exercise is flawed for her health goals. She exercises so that she can eat certain foods without putting on weight

Next Steps at Retreat:

We looked at Debbie’s regular eating habits through keeping a food diary, checked for imbalances in hormones and blood sugar. We needed to re-motivate her, and show her by making a few simple changes, she could take back control of her health.

Judy’s story coming soon …

… wine when she gets home from work. Over the past year, one glass had turned into a bottle every night without fail. Although she looked forward to it, and she felt like it helped her to wind down, because she knew it wasn’t serving her health-wise, it didn’t make her feel great afterward. When we sat down to talk about her health goals, she kept coming back to this point as her downfall, and she, for the life of her, couldn’t work out why she was doing it when she knows the habit wasn’t good for her and it was starting to get out of hand. She was beating herself up about it and even described herself at one point as being ‘nuts’.

Sally’s Challenges:

• She had built a habitual correlation between getting home from work and drinking to relax
• She didn’t have any other activity or habit she could think of which helped her to relax or to ‘fill up her own cup’ after a day like wine did
• When she got home from work, wine put a big smile on her face; which nothing else did
• Sally felt guilty when she took time to relax or took time out for herself, she felt like there were too many other things she could/should be doing

Next Steps at Retreat:

From what Sally told us, it sounded like she had nothing else for herself and nothing else to look forward to in her day, apart from her ‘wine time’. After a long day at work, being brilliant for the company she worked for, taking the kids to their sports trainings, she needed something for herself. It was clear that Sally needed something to put the smile back on her face at the end of a long day, most people do! Wine was a form of ‘active relaxation’ when she treated herself and when she gave herself permission to have some down time. Over time, this repeated activity which gave her joy in her day had embedded itself as a habit which has become challenging to stop. But that’s how habits work. So we helped Sally change that habit on a Three Week Life Changer retreat.

Amanda’s story coming soon …

Julie’s story, coming soon …

Samantha’s story coming soon …

Lisa’s story coming soon